Some times do you feel like you despise your boss to the extent of not even wanting to say hello to him/her in the morning. I don’t like my boss . I think she is a bully. I currently have three bosses (crazy company, right?) I indirectly report to two of those bosses while I directly report to my laboratory manager (I call her the witch.).She is a back stabbing coward who likes to shove all her responsibilities to analysts. She loves to see other employees in hot seat while she covers her faults by blaming her subordinates.
This week some thing happened in the laboratory that none of the analyst had anything to do with it. She got a harsh warning from up top. Instead of her handling her problems in the utmost professional way she started parading her emails to us the analyst. What kind of a leader can’t even keep his or her correspondent with the management confidential? This morning she convened an “urgent meeting” in the lab expecting us to show a sympathy for her. I for one never give a hoot about her conflict with the management team. I thought the Karma was catching up with her. This week the management fired a nice manager in one of the other laboratory over the quality of her work. My current boss thinks that the real fire is coming maybe to her. I feel sorry for the other manager who was fired, but I doubt if will ever feel remorse for a bully who wants to be friendly whenever it fits her needs.
This weekend she invited a group of us for a lunch at her expense. Part of me wants to turn down the offer while another part of me wants to make a good impression until my approaching performance review is over.Although I believe one only get a raise or promotion because of his/her outstanding ability to solve a major project problem or completed a new responsibility in a timely manner, but sometimes this things do come with a little kiss ass. This is the true nature of the business world nowadays. I try to stay focused on the purpose and goals of my work nature, but sometimes it is hard to concentrate when you have a hostile finger pointing boss.
Friday, July 13, 2007
Saturday, May 05, 2007
Marriage Proposal
On Saturday morning, I got up as usual to a good day after a long week of work. Last week was a busy week for me especially when I had to flip through 350 pages of laboratory quality control programs. As you can tell, it was not fun at all. I was looking forward to the weekend. I also had an appointment with a good friend of mine who has been trying for the last one week to meet in private. I had no reason to suspect why he was so tenacious to meet me . I was eager to meet him too since I have not seen him for quite some time. The friend of mine had a message from a family that we both knew. They confided their message to him in order for him to pass the message to me. I will try to respect the family privacy while I write my opinion in my blog.
I got a marriage proposal today from a family that I respect so much. They have sent my friend to tell me that they want me to marry their beautiful daughter whom I have crossed path with before when she visited her aunt down here in Atlanta.She is a young beatiful Somali sister.My friend laid it out to me about the message few minutes after we chatted up. I was surprised with the respect and honor I was accorded by this family. When my friend was telling me the message, I kept looking at him as if I was trying to figure out weather he was fooling at me, but he was damn serious. I could tell why they used him as a messenger for he is a man of respect in the community.
Silence fell around me when my freind started conveying the message to me. My imagination clicked into overdrive. Unfortunately, I had to turn down the offer because of personal reasons. I blurted out an apology to my friend for turning down the offer.” Its alright I guess if you not ready” He said in a kindlier tone. His placidity seemed eerie in view of the bombshell he dropped at my doorstep. I tried to explain to him effusively why I had to turn down the gesture. Thanks to Allah that I have a good job and a good health, but unfortunately marriage is not in my plan for now. I have other goals I want to accomplish before I settled down for a marriage. I know it is blessings from God when people respect you to give you their daughter's hands, but it is hard when you hardly know the person you have been given. I currently have a girlfriend whom I like so much. I have to face the paradox of explaining to my girlfriend why I should leave her for someone I hardly know. My current girlfriend seems to respect my goal in life. I have explained to her when I think I will be ready to settle down. She seems to respect my goal for she has the same dream of going to graduate school.Even though I haven't promised her anything either, but I suspect things will work out between the two of us.
I lay in my bed and stared up at the ceiling wall trying to figure out whether the family will think I thought I was too good for their daughter. Did I slunk away from them without giving them a good answer as to why I was not interested in their daughter? I wish I considered the implication my answer will have on the family, but some things are better said in an honest way. I did as I felt. At this moment in my life, I believe I am not ready to take a promise on which girl I will marry.Did I do the right thing? I think Allah is my witness that I was honest with my answer.
I got a marriage proposal today from a family that I respect so much. They have sent my friend to tell me that they want me to marry their beautiful daughter whom I have crossed path with before when she visited her aunt down here in Atlanta.She is a young beatiful Somali sister.My friend laid it out to me about the message few minutes after we chatted up. I was surprised with the respect and honor I was accorded by this family. When my friend was telling me the message, I kept looking at him as if I was trying to figure out weather he was fooling at me, but he was damn serious. I could tell why they used him as a messenger for he is a man of respect in the community.
Silence fell around me when my freind started conveying the message to me. My imagination clicked into overdrive. Unfortunately, I had to turn down the offer because of personal reasons. I blurted out an apology to my friend for turning down the offer.” Its alright I guess if you not ready” He said in a kindlier tone. His placidity seemed eerie in view of the bombshell he dropped at my doorstep. I tried to explain to him effusively why I had to turn down the gesture. Thanks to Allah that I have a good job and a good health, but unfortunately marriage is not in my plan for now. I have other goals I want to accomplish before I settled down for a marriage. I know it is blessings from God when people respect you to give you their daughter's hands, but it is hard when you hardly know the person you have been given. I currently have a girlfriend whom I like so much. I have to face the paradox of explaining to my girlfriend why I should leave her for someone I hardly know. My current girlfriend seems to respect my goal in life. I have explained to her when I think I will be ready to settle down. She seems to respect my goal for she has the same dream of going to graduate school.Even though I haven't promised her anything either, but I suspect things will work out between the two of us.
I lay in my bed and stared up at the ceiling wall trying to figure out whether the family will think I thought I was too good for their daughter. Did I slunk away from them without giving them a good answer as to why I was not interested in their daughter? I wish I considered the implication my answer will have on the family, but some things are better said in an honest way. I did as I felt. At this moment in my life, I believe I am not ready to take a promise on which girl I will marry.Did I do the right thing? I think Allah is my witness that I was honest with my answer.
Friday, April 20, 2007
Somalia Situation
A series of horrible killing stemming from the discontent of the Somali civilian with the Ethiopian invasion have lately rocked the stability of Southern Somalia. The world especially the United States and Ethiopian government have contributed to today’s horrible din of heart trending shrieks and cries that have engulfed the nation. No word that could suffice to describe the injustice Somalia is experiencing today. The United State and its proxy Ethiopian government have necessitated the killings and the frenzied rage of the public.The news today states that 113 people were slain within three days. When will America my adopted nation ever care to wake up to understand the harm their bent foreign policy is causing to the children and women of Somalia. The Ethiopian invasion has been the most devastating disaster after the rule of warlords for over a decade.
The TFG and its cronies would not guarantee an honest efficient government. During the few peaceful months, the Islamic court ruled Mogadishu Somalia was heading in the right direction. The public was beginning to enjoy peace and stability. Social welfare was beginning to appear important and the economic focus of the public was beginning to be revived. The ICU was prepared for the business of bringing Somalia back to life. They fought and resisted the warlords who were holding the country in hostage. The Ethiopian invasion just exacerbated the problems that are besetting Somalia.
The TFG and Ethipoia are deceptive and deceiving the Somali public. The TFG is made up of people who are inhuman and uncharitable. They are all after power. I am not impressed with the way the world is taking lightly the destruction Somalia is facing today. I came across a powerful video that described the situation in Somalia. I am guessing it was produced before the invasion of Somalia by the Ethiopian government.I will post it once I figure it out what is wrong with the link. It was a heart wrenching to watch.
The TFG and its cronies would not guarantee an honest efficient government. During the few peaceful months, the Islamic court ruled Mogadishu Somalia was heading in the right direction. The public was beginning to enjoy peace and stability. Social welfare was beginning to appear important and the economic focus of the public was beginning to be revived. The ICU was prepared for the business of bringing Somalia back to life. They fought and resisted the warlords who were holding the country in hostage. The Ethiopian invasion just exacerbated the problems that are besetting Somalia.
The TFG and Ethipoia are deceptive and deceiving the Somali public. The TFG is made up of people who are inhuman and uncharitable. They are all after power. I am not impressed with the way the world is taking lightly the destruction Somalia is facing today. I came across a powerful video that described the situation in Somalia. I am guessing it was produced before the invasion of Somalia by the Ethiopian government.I will post it once I figure it out what is wrong with the link. It was a heart wrenching to watch.
Friday, April 06, 2007
Random Rambling
It is a late evening and I just got off from the YMCA after working out for almost three hours. I am sweaty and yucky. My gas tank light is blinking on the dashboard. I know I have to make a stop to fill up my gas-guzzling car. I pulled over to the nearest Quick Trip gas station. A middle age woman approached my car with a little concerned distance. At first, I had the impression that she was a sales person soliciting; some business.She asked if I had a few minutes to spare. I told my ears were all for her. I have a habit of not writing off people at first approach. One time at the impatience of my friends, I spend few minutes listening to Jehovah witness who wanted to “save” me.
She wanted some men muscles to change her tire. I offered to help her to change the flat tire. In America whenever a Samaritan does something kind for you people expect you to give them some tip. After I was done, changing the tire the woman handed me a dollar notes, which looked like twenty dollars. I had to turn down the offer because I did it for the cause of generosity. I explained to her how this was an opportunity for me to create a smiling face in other people’s lives. It is not that often that we come across such a great opportunity to make difference in people’s lives. We are all too busy with our little world. I do believe from my up bringing as a Muslim that generosity does bring luck to you.
I am heading down to Ohio this Easter weekend for a Somali Indoor Soccer tournament in Columbus Ohio. I have been to Ohio before and I never liked the place. It is too damn boring of a place, but I guess all the nomads out of town will make it fun this weekend. I am all for the parties and the honeys down there. We all have to find balance in our lives. I guess partying this weekend will do it for me. Even though I am not soccer player, I will try to blend with the crowd. I don’t remember the last time I kicked a ball in a field. Let this not raise question about my soccer skills because last I remember I was a good midfielder in an African sand field.
She wanted some men muscles to change her tire. I offered to help her to change the flat tire. In America whenever a Samaritan does something kind for you people expect you to give them some tip. After I was done, changing the tire the woman handed me a dollar notes, which looked like twenty dollars. I had to turn down the offer because I did it for the cause of generosity. I explained to her how this was an opportunity for me to create a smiling face in other people’s lives. It is not that often that we come across such a great opportunity to make difference in people’s lives. We are all too busy with our little world. I do believe from my up bringing as a Muslim that generosity does bring luck to you.
I am heading down to Ohio this Easter weekend for a Somali Indoor Soccer tournament in Columbus Ohio. I have been to Ohio before and I never liked the place. It is too damn boring of a place, but I guess all the nomads out of town will make it fun this weekend. I am all for the parties and the honeys down there. We all have to find balance in our lives. I guess partying this weekend will do it for me. Even though I am not soccer player, I will try to blend with the crowd. I don’t remember the last time I kicked a ball in a field. Let this not raise question about my soccer skills because last I remember I was a good midfielder in an African sand field.
Sunday, March 25, 2007
March Madness
It is Sunday afternoon and I am watching NCAA basketball game between Georgetown and UNC.I was really impressed with Florida game against Oregon. As much as I am a Gator hater, I must admit that Noah and Brewer have a great chemistry in the court. I saw them play Arkansas in the SEC championship here in Atlanta. All I got say is if you can’t beat them you might as well join them. As Georgia bulldog alumni, I should swallow my Red &Black pride only for this weekend.My beloved Georgia team requires a tremendous rebuilding job. Florida would be playing UCLA next Saturday in Atlanta. I am trying hard to get hold of the final four tickets. Of course, for free. I need to call my connections and see if he can find me a ticket. He did it during the SEC championship here in Atlanta so I doubt why he'd not do it on the final four.
Florida has every right to be in Atlanta on Saturday for the final four. I know Gators have tons of haters out there, but I think being a little critical on the team would not mean as a Hatetorode(is that a word? Lol). As you might know that Florida hasn’t played a consistent game this season. They were not dominant in today game.Matter of fact they missed about seven free throws.
PS The weather is beautiful outside. This is why it is called Hotlanta!
Florida has every right to be in Atlanta on Saturday for the final four. I know Gators have tons of haters out there, but I think being a little critical on the team would not mean as a Hatetorode(is that a word? Lol). As you might know that Florida hasn’t played a consistent game this season. They were not dominant in today game.Matter of fact they missed about seven free throws.
PS The weather is beautiful outside. This is why it is called Hotlanta!
Tuesday, March 20, 2007
Hawks Game
Last night I had a great time attending the Atlanta Hawks playing Sacramento Kings in Philips Arena. My Palestinian friend(one of the coolest Arab guy I ever got to meet) scored some Executive section seats for me and my other former college buddies. You might think for a minute that we were major ballers seating in a high-class seat. There were champagne and alcohol flying around us (too, bad no one of my friend’s drink). We had to pass that one to the people seating next to us. But boy did we devoured the hot wings and the burger table. We had the best treatment you could ever get for a free ticket.
In the suite, they served as drinks and deserts .This is one of the great things about living in a city where your basketball team sucks. Even though Hawks are struggling to make it to the playoff (always has been) I personally think they did a great job in beating the Sacramento Kings last night. This is there straight fifth win in their hometown . I thought I should share with you what wonderful night I had in the game. I don’t remember the last time my friends and I got together to watch a Live basketball game together. I think the last time we did this was the year before last year when our college was playing a Kentucky at the SEC conference.
Saturday, March 17, 2007
New Caashaq?
The word relationship has been an alien word in my life for quite sometime. I have avoided and made every effort to make myself busy with my life, but unfortunately we, as humans do need relationships with opposite sex for our happiness and emotional well-being (Ha?). For quite awhile, I have made the decision of staying single until I was happy with where I was with my life. No, am still not happy with my life. Matter of fact I think ambition is killing me every time I wanted to make a move to a woman. I think such self-indulgence (of making yourself happy) is fraudulent. There were times I felt inadequate, especially when it came to commitments.
I liked to muddled this by myself, but My friends never shirked from bagging me to find a flame. I have pondered on this obvious truth about my life and I have lately started to look around and see if there was a still a fish on the pond. Although I blanched at the very thought of putting myself out there, I knew that when the time is right, good things do happen to good people. We all do want the wet kiss on our cheek. This pregnant alienation had to stop somewhere, right?
I have met beautiful women whom I got interested. Some even startled the fear out of my mind. Nevertheless, no one really caught my attention like the new girl in my life. I met her a few months ago. She was absolutely stunning and radiating with the glow of Somali beauty. She has everything I ever wanted in a woman. We all want the best of what has been left, right? She and I like pretty much everything the same except some few exceptions of likes and dislikes. I have made every move to make her see the great person I am.
At this time everyone is still at the giggling stage of getting-to-know each other phase. I hope after being away from the game for quite sometime I still do have what it takes to make this woman see every side of my life. I promised her to be honest in everything that I do. I expect the same from her since we both want to be content with our choices. I just can’t stop thinking of holding hands with this woman in the warm sand of Georgia beaches.Things seems to be much thrilling and lovey-dovey for now.I do hope it stays the same.Tata..Tata....
I liked to muddled this by myself, but My friends never shirked from bagging me to find a flame. I have pondered on this obvious truth about my life and I have lately started to look around and see if there was a still a fish on the pond. Although I blanched at the very thought of putting myself out there, I knew that when the time is right, good things do happen to good people. We all do want the wet kiss on our cheek. This pregnant alienation had to stop somewhere, right?
I have met beautiful women whom I got interested. Some even startled the fear out of my mind. Nevertheless, no one really caught my attention like the new girl in my life. I met her a few months ago. She was absolutely stunning and radiating with the glow of Somali beauty. She has everything I ever wanted in a woman. We all want the best of what has been left, right? She and I like pretty much everything the same except some few exceptions of likes and dislikes. I have made every move to make her see the great person I am.
At this time everyone is still at the giggling stage of getting-to-know each other phase. I hope after being away from the game for quite sometime I still do have what it takes to make this woman see every side of my life. I promised her to be honest in everything that I do. I expect the same from her since we both want to be content with our choices. I just can’t stop thinking of holding hands with this woman in the warm sand of Georgia beaches.Things seems to be much thrilling and lovey-dovey for now.I do hope it stays the same.Tata..Tata....
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